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A servant-leader includes his wife in
envisioning the future.
2. A servant-leader
accepts spiritual responsibilities for
his family.
3. A servant-leader is
willing to say, "I'm sorry" and "forgive
me" to his family.
4. A servant-leader
discusses household responsibilities with his
wife and makes sure they are fairly distributed.
5. A servant-leader
seeks the consultation of his wife for all
major financial dicisions.
6. A servant-leader
follows through with commitments he has made
to his wife.
7. A servant-leader
anticipates the different seasons his
marriage will pass through.
8. A servant-leader
anticipates the different stages his
children will pass through.
9. A servant-leader
frequently tells his wife what he likes
about her.
10. A servant-leader provides
financially for his family's basic living
expenses.
11. A servant-leader deals with
distractions so he can talk with
his wife and family.
12. A servant-leader prays
with his wife on a regular basis.
13. A servant-leader
initiates meaningful family traditions.
14. A servant-leader plans
fun outings for his family on a regular
basis.
15. A servant-leader takes time
to give his children practical instruction
about life, which in turn gives them confidence
with their peers.
16. A servant-leader manages
the schedule of the home and
anticipates any pressure points.
17. A servant-leader keeps his
family financially sound and out of
harmful debt.
18. A servant-leader makes sure
he and his wife have drawn up a will and
arranged for a well-conceived plan for their
children in case of death.
19. A servant-leader lets his
wife and children into the interior of
his life.
20. A servant-leader honors
his wife often in public.
21. A servant-leader explains
sex to each child in a way that gives
them a wholesome perspective.
22. A servant-leader encourages
his wife to grow as an individual.
23. A servant-leader takes the
lead in establishing with his wife sound,
biblically-supportable family values.
24. A servant-leader joins
a small group of men who are dedicated to
improving their skills as a man, husband and
father.
25. A servant-leader provides
time for his wife to pursue her own personal
interests.
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